This piece of writing is dedicated to all girls who will get
married in coming 2-3 years ‘but don’t want to’. Before you would quote
something in your mind. Let me be clear that I’m in the same shoes and that is
what motivated me to pen down this. Well coming to the point, I personally feel
belonging to the Indian Society where marriage means more than just a knot
between a girl and a boy. As per my experience with my friends and family of
same age or a bit a year younger or elder than me, the person who has to give
up their career and ambition is a girl in most of the cases. I believe our
society is not able to take in if a girl
is more ambitious than a man. We are made to believe since childhood and that
is the reason I have never seen in my 25 years that a married woman is earning
more than her husband and so called society is accepting her. Well I would
discuss this in my next blog.
It became important to write the “song of life” for me as an
alert for those ambitious girls who want to achieve numerous things in life and
have dreamt to fulfill their weirdest desire.
Girl, you are very lucky that you still have2-3 years as a bachelorette and you can do as many things without excuse.
But that’s only gonna happen if you’re serious about it.
Here are the few things I have applied in my life and
somewhere deep within I don’t regret it.
First of all you have to be patient. Nothing comes at once.
Patience about the things you want to do and you are looking forward to.
Stop spending all your money on shopping. This is one of the
thing that girls can’t resist easily. I have experienced that shopping takes
all your money. Every month when you salary is credited the first thing that comes
in your mind is shopping. NO! don’t do that, instead save some money and spend
it on the things that you have been thinking of doing for so long. Be it
traveling, or pursuing your hobby or something else you wanna go for.
Do that because the right time is now.
GOA trip is one of the talk that we all do and never execute
it. If you are fond of traveling and have always wanted to drop in GOA with
your friends. It’s the time to execute that without thinking.
Get uncomfortable a bit. We all know that life starts at the
end of our comfortable zone. If it takes your weekend to do things you love,
let it take. That is how you differentiate yourself from others.
You are not machine and your life is not only about
office-sleep-repeat and you’re more than this.
Work smart and earn lots of money. The only person you
should depend upon is yourself. Be financially independent. The joy of
lavishness with your own earned money is exotic.
Stay fit! Fitness is very important for everyone. But at
this age this should be one of your important and priortized goal. Be consistent
with what you eat and workout well. Learn to control yourself when you see a
junk. It is not important to eat ‘golgappe’everytime you see it. Make a
schedule of eating healthy foods and cheat on weekends.
Carpe Diem my friend! Enjoy every bit of what you doing.
Don’t think much about future. Thinking much about your future will mess your
life and make your present complex.
Don’t be clingy to your boyfriend.
Boyfriends are very important part of your life. Don’t leave them and they deserve your time but that is not the only thing you are born for.
It is very important to add different flavors to your life. Some are for
friends, some are for boyfriend and many for your own self.
Be happy about who you are- find happiness within you and in
your own company. No one is responsible for your happiness but you.
Stop thinking about-Log kya kahenge
Do things that makes you happy, people talk and forget.
Don’t worry about them. After 5 years you will realize’I would have done that’.
So you! Live every moment of your life and fulfill all your
small scattered desires before you miss the train. This alert “Song of Life”is
just a reminder to explore who you are and what you have left since long. Give
your life a kick and be the way you are because that’s what makes you
"YOU"
